Category: Dating and Relationships
There is a big difference between attracting any old guy and the guy of your dreams. The way that you go about dating and finding a man to be with will make a huge difference in whether or not you end up with the right man or not. Far too many women end up setting themselves up for failure just because they start things off on the wrong foot when they meet a guy. Luckily, there are some things that you can do to prevent this and end up getting the guy you have been searching for.
Here are some tips on how to get a boyfriend that will help you attract the right man:
1. Set your standards higher from the onset.
Desperately wanting to find a boyfriend can have you setting your standards way lower than what they should be. If you want to ensure that you do end up meeting the right kind of guy, then right from the onset you have to set your standards a little higher and not cave in on them due to loneliness or just the desire to have a man in your life. Too many women will have a good idea of what kind of man that they would like to attract, and then they lower their standards just so that they do not have to be alone. Don't do this to yourself.
2. Make him have to prove himself a little.
While you don't want to have to make a guy work too hard for you, at the same time you don't want to be too "easy" for him. By making him have to prove himself a little, you will save yourself a ton of grief and aggravation and weed out the kinds of men that you do not want to have to deal with.
3. Know how to make him desire you.
There is a big difference between making a guy want to see you, and being able to make him desire you. When you can make a man desire you, he will do anything that he can to get your attention and be with you. You have to know how to tease a man and make him yearn for more of you. Most women are a little too keen on trying to get a guy to want to see them again, and they don't do enough to make him desire them. And that can make a lot of difference in how a guy treats you and feels about you.
hope this helps...
Raaj.
This is useful, and everything. But I would love for someone to come out here and post the opposite, since I..well, don't go that way. Hmmmm.
Uh, wait. *comes back and looks at the latest topics, realizing there already is such a thing. Never mind.
good advice raaj.
That's pretty good. Way too many women don't know how to get a man, and they all pretty much do the opposite of what you said. haha
That's honestly some good advice that many people need to know.
That is some great advice raajy. and all very true. especially the last one. Some women feel desperate to keep a guys attention and make them come back for more, that they try too hard. Such as sex on the first date. Men like challenges and if women r that easy, men will become very bored, very quick.